Offer Hospitality to One Another
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Consideration... The Call of a Good Host
1 Peter 4:9 (NIV)
Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.
There is probably at least one occasion in all of our lives where we can recall being treated far less than hospitable. Even if the instant wasn’t outright hostile, we were still left feeling awkward and uneasy. Keep that thought in mind and consider this… during Biblical times there was much more to the term hospitality than what we attach to it today.
The word hospitality derives from the Latin hospes, which is formed from hostis, originally meaning "to have power." The meaning of "host" can be literally read as "lord of strangers."
1 Chronicles 11:9 (KJV)
So David waxed greater and greater: for the LORD of hosts was with him.
The scripture referenced above has nothing to do with throwing a party. Throughout the Old Testament, God is referred to as the “Lord of Hosts”, and most of these references are given in the context of authority, power, and war. That’s quite a bit different from the notion of a guy or gal serving finger sandwiches and punch. So, what is the common thread, where is the connection that provides us with a joined understanding in our concept of the two extremes?
Proverbs 22:9 (KJV)
He that hath a bountiful eye shall be blessed; for he giveth of his bread to the poor.
Some answers can be found in the way strangers expected to be treated by the hosts or lords they encountered. At the very least, one could look forward to refreshment from their journey. Food and rest were offered, and in most cases shelter and provision as well. The lord or host would consider it an oversight if he were to allow harm to befall the stranger under his care. Consideration and protection would be furnished as a matter of honor; with concern for the guest’s wellbeing being the general norm. The whole idea of hospitality is one of ensuring a sense of easiness, making the person feel relaxed and secure. This Biblical model reminds us that we are to consider what the person has faced and is facing when coming into our presence, and to do what we can to encourage them, putting them at ease. It also urges us to think ahead to what might be of need when they depart from our company to make provision for that which is yet to be encountered. To be mindful of their total wellbeing; past, present and future is the call of hospitality and the duty of a good host. Consider these passages which give instruction concerning treatment of strangers.
Exodus 22:21(KJV)
Thou shalt neither vex a stranger, nor oppress him: for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt.
Job 31:32 (KJV)
The stranger did not lodge in the street: but I opened my doors to the traveller.
John 14:2 (KJV)
In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.
In reality, we were all strangers… enemies in fact; cut off from God by our sinful nature. It is the work of the cross and the call to faith which provides us with a common starting point. We have been given the opportunity to come in the “Name of the Lord.”
1 Samuel 17:45 (KJV)
Then said David to the Philistine, Thou comest to me with a sword, and with a spear, and with a shield: but I come to thee in the name of the LORD of hosts, the God of the armies of Israel, whom thou hast defied.
When an army goes into battle, it does so at the will of its king for the defense of the kingdom and the wellbeing of its people. Christ is the “Lord of Lords”, and “King of Kings”; all who follow Him engage in “Spiritual Warfare” against sin and unrighteousness in the defense of “His Kingdom” and the welfare of those in the “Body of Believers.” Just as the armies of Israel had God before them and with them, we have Christ as both example and leader before us and with us. Let us therefore in the “Spirit of Christ” show “Hospitality to One Another”, operating as “Good Hosts”; considering not only the physical needs, but also the spiritual struggle faced by those we encounter. Taking the time to care for their needs and provide comfort and assurance that in a “life of Christ”… every need will be supplied.
Hebrews 13:1-3(KJV)
Let brotherly love continue. Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. Remember them that are in bonds, as bound with them; and them which suffer adversity, as being yourselves also in the body.
"Blessings"
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I learned the lesson the hard way though my wife's family or maybe I'm teaching it the hard way.
My wife is Filipina and when her friends and relatives come to our home for a visit, I open my arms to them and what is ours they are welcome to. But then that said, I get treated as an outsider in my own home as they go off and speak in their languages and dialects leaving me totally ignored.
Yes I am hurt by this, but still I will never deny them my love or my home. They are always welcome. The one thing I do though is that when we sit down at the dinner table as family, the language must be English only so that I am included, and since they all understand and speak English we have no problem.
mattmilamii: We are married 25 years this December. I have softly explained it till I am blue in the face. I still welcome her friends and family into our home with open arms of love and what's ours is theirs when they ask. I have even tried speaking to the others one on one, they understand my feelings but don't seem to care.
I still insist and if necessary demand only English when we sit down at the dinner table. If this rule gets broken, I might really get upset, but so far it works.
I feel like the bad guy sometimes but I also feel like I am being treated like a piece of furniture in my own home.
Indeed both of us were/are long-suffering men of the Lord Jesus.
Thank you I agree with on hospitality, we should treat everyone the way we want to be treated, especially in our homes. We should make everyone feel welcome at all times. Thank you for sharing. GHodspeed. creativeone59











Dave Mathews Level 7 Commenter 13 months ago
Hospitality comes in many forms but the most important form is to make your guest feel welcomed in every way.